Inheritance for Minors

Dear Len & Rosie,

I am the custodian for a $55,000 UTMA account for my 16-year-old daughter that was given to her by her now-deceased grandparents. My daughter is supposed to use it to pay for her education. But at this point in time, she wants to buy a Camero and move into an apartment on her own. And no doubt party till the cows come home.

I want to move as much of this money into an account that she cannot access when she turns 18. I've done some research and it appears that I can use the money for expenses such as education, camp, her car, medical expenses, and even general living expenses. My plan is to keep about $10,000 to reimburse myself for the car I bought her and her medical bills, and to put the rest into a savings account in my name to distribute to her as I feel appropriate.

Are there any time limits on how far in the past I can retrieve funds for reimbursement and stay within legal boundaries of the use of this fund?

Pat

Wills and Probate

Dear Len & Rosie,

My aunt just died. She lived alone and never had any children. We found a will in her safe deposit box. The will is dated 1978 and named no executor. My aunt left her estate equally among my father, who is dead, her sister, who is in a nursing home, and her late husband's children. What happens to my father's share? Does it automatically go to his heirs?

I have made the funeral arrangements. I have also frozen her credit card accounts and will take care of her house. What do we do next? How can we pay her bills or conduct her business? This is a mess. We can't afford to pay her expenses out of our pockets. How do we get things paid out of her estate?

Sue