Trusts and Trustee Duties

Dear Len & Rosie,

My mother has a revocable living trust. I am her sole successor trustee, and I'll take over after she dies. I have two brothers and a sister. My mother wrote her trust to give my younger brother only $1, because he was once convicted of marijuana possession and he never calls or visits. She thinks he is still a dope smoking pothead. What would have been his share is to be divided up among my cousins and the church.

As the trustee after my mother dies, am I able to ignore her wishes and give my brother his fair share of my mother's property? How difficult is it to change it the way I see fit? This is really bothering me because it's just not fair. I feel all of her children should be treated alike.

Suzanne

Divorce, Probate and Community Property

Dear Len & Rosie,

My husband died two months before our divorce was completed. Before his death, he wrote a will naming his divorce lawyer as his executor and his children as the beneficiaries. I fear this lawyer is biased and will not execute the will in a fair manner. I appeared in court and the judge told me to file a written objection.

I am concerned about my children's rights because the will leaves everything to his children, and nothing to mine. There is also an insurance policy that name me and both of our children as beneficiaries, but the will leaves this policy to his children.

Medha