The Proper Way To Change Your Beneficiaries.

Dear Len & Rosie,

We finished our trust in 2003. We would like to change our beneficiaries. One of our charities is out of business and we would like to give that charity's share to another. Our original lawyer has moved and the new lawyer wants to charge us to "talk" to us before he will tell us how much it will cost to change the trust. Can we cross out the old list and handwrite changes ourselves? We are only in our 50's and expect that there will be other changed down the line. This is getting expensive.

Denise

Probate and Retirement Accounts and Insurance Policies

Dear Len & Rosie,

My sister recently passed away. She did not leave a will, but she did have a pension of about $250,000 of which her sons are the beneficiaries. Her $200,000 insurance policy was left to me to pay off her son's student loans, and the rest was to be distributed to myself and her grandchildren, nieces and nephews. She also left a credit card debt of $25,000. Does her pension or insurance qualify for probate? Are we responsible for paying off this debt? What options are available to us? Morally we feel responsible to pay the debt, is there a legal responsibility?

Patricia